Making a good impression throu your voice intonation

June 22, 2012 by
Filed under: Communication, Learn bodylanguage 

A lot times, it’s not the words you say that’s attractive to women. It’s how you say them. A man with a confident and powerful voice can be very seductive a woman. Someone like this doesn’t even really to say that much. With just that sound of voice, he can easily attract women.

The way you speak to a woman can often determine your success. Developing a powerful voice can be an incredible way to demonstrate a naturally attractive vibe. When a woman is turned on by how you say stuff, you won’t have to work as hard at thinking of stuff to talk about. As a result, it’s important to work on your speech, and develop a good intonation.

In order to develop this behavior, here are four areas that you need to concentrate on :

1 – The Speed of speaking

Guys often show their anxiety and nervousness by talking too fast during a conversation. The less confident people have a tendency to talk to women in a rapid-fire manner. This is usually resulted from a feeling that they have a limited amount of time to impress a woman. So they feel the need to talk fast as possible to cover the “important” things.

Unfortunately, rapid speech doesn’t help you demonstrate a confident personality. It usually comes out as a garbled mess that women find hard to follow. When talking to a guy like this, a woman is often left with her head spinning.

A confident speech pattern is slow and clear. A guy who talks this way doesn’t fly through his conversation. Instead he knows the things he says are interesting, so he isn’t too concerned with taking some time. One of the best ways to develop this type of speech is to monitor your speed. You’ll find that many times you talk too fast , especially in an uncomfortable social environment. When this happens, make it point to cut your speed down to about half of what it normally would be. Furthermore, another great technique to try is the deliberate pause.

This is a conversation tactic where youpurposefully stop the conversation right before you saysomething interesting. It’s a powerful way to get a personto hang on your every word. Plus, a little suspense goes along way. You want a woman to wonder what you’re goingto say next!

2 – The Volume of your voice

The volume of your speech is another way to demonstrate your level of confidence. A confident person speaks loudly because he knows people want to hear what he has to say. Conversely, a weak guy tends to have a soft, low voice. Now in order for you to build attraction through your conversation, you have to be heard.

If your voice isn’t loud enough, then you’ll quickly lose interest from women. This is especially true when it comes to noisy venues like bars or clubs. Since you generally have to talk over ambient and competing noise, it’s important to become comfortable with speaking in clear, commanding voice. You may feel uncomfortable speaking this way, but trust me; you will be quickly ignored if you try to engage awoman with a soft meek voice. Try practicing at home by reading from a book.

You want to carefully read the words and speak in loud voice in a natural manner without shouting. A quick tip is to pull the air from your diaphragm, not your chest.

3 – Your Modulation

A monotone voice can quickly put a person to sleep.  A great example of this can be seen in the movie “FerrisBueller’s Day Off”. In one funny scene the teacher (Ben Stein) puts his entire class to sleep with his monotone, boring voice.

Don’t talk to people like a robot! Nobody wants to listen to a voice with no emotion or passion. An expressionless voice does little to attract attention. It’s actually one of the quickest ways to demonstrate that you probably live a boring existence. To develop a more interesting speech pattern, you have to learn how to modulate your voice. To do this, you practice using your voice to express different emotions. This can include humor, anger, sadness, and happiness.



Furthermore, try fluctuating the volume and speechpatterns whenever telling a story. A great way to learn how to modulate is to listen to a famous comedian or radio personality. You’ll hear how they can express a wide range of emotions through the power of their voice. Record some of these guys and then practice the way that they speak. After awhile, you’ll learn how to develop a rich voice that’s full of interesting nuances.

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